Gothic fashion has long been a symbol of rebellion, self-expression, and creativity. While the style is often associated with dark, dramatic clothing, it also offers a unique opportunity for individuals to break free from societal gender norms. In the world of gothic fashion, gender fluidity is not just accepted—it’s celebrated. The flexibility of gothic style allows individuals to express themselves outside the traditional confines of masculine or feminine clothing, making it a powerful tool for those who want to explore and embrace their identity.

Historically, goth fashion has drawn inspiration from Victorian, punk, and gothic subcultures, all of which feature elements that can be worn by anyone, regardless of gender. The focus on individual expression over conforming to societal standards means that both men and women. theys and thems, can mix and match pieces—lace, leather, corsets, oversized jackets, boots, and jewelry—without being bound by expectations. This freedom allows goths to experiment with their style in ways that feel authentic to them.

The beauty of gothic fashion lies in its versatility. For example, oversized black coats, long flowing skirts, and tight pants are worn equally by all genders, while accessories like chokers, spiked collars, and silver rings transcend traditional gender lines.  Let's take the first Matrix movie for example; any character, of any gender could switch outfits the styles would still absolutely work. Additionally, makeup plays a significant role in gothic fashion. Bold eyeliner, dark lipstick, and dramatic face paint can enhance the androgynous aesthetic, allowing individuals to craft looks that feel truly representative of their inner selves, regardless of gender.

This embracing of fluidity can be empowering for many in the goth community. It challenges the rigid definitions of "masculine" and "feminine" and encourages individuals to build a wardrobe that aligns with their true identity, not societal expectations. Whether you identify as male, female, non-binary, or something else entirely, gothic fashion offers a space where your style is yours to define, free from judgment or limitation. I love in online goth spaces seeing people share their looks, experimenting, even if it's something as simple as painting their nails for the first time.

I have to specifically mention the "pastel goth" aesthetic. Gender fluidity, queerness, and the pastel goth aesthetic share a sense of individuality and subversion of traditional norms. The pastel goth style blends soft, pastel colors with darker, gothic elements, creating a unique visual identity that mirrors the fluidity and self-expression inherent in queer culture. It’s an aesthetic that embraces contrasts—delicate yet rebellious, cute yet dark—much like how queerness celebrates diversity, nonconformity, and the freedom to explore one's identity without boundaries. I think out of all the subgenres of goth, pastel goth has a soft place in my heart. Pictured below is one of my fave looks this from Alexander McQueen F/W 2025. Pastel vibes, dahling!

Photo credit via Vogue Korea

In short, gothic fashion isn’t just about creating a dark, dramatic look—it’s about breaking stereotypes and giving everyone the freedom to wear what makes them feel their most authentic selves. The result is a community where creativity, individuality, and self-expression reign supreme, and where gender fluidity is not just accepted but celebrated.

Signed with love from Montreal's number 1 Elvira impersonator, 

Tristan Ginger

All Black & White photos by Marisa Parisella

All jewelry by Inchoo Bijoux